For married Christian men with too much to lose

Finally break free from
pornography permanently, and start  rebuilding trust in your marriage

Without risking public exposure, spending months in traditional therapy, or relying on willpower alone—even if you have struggled for decades

Developed by a Master's Level Therapist over 18+ years.
Battle Tested by 1000+ men.
​Built for speed and high efficacy.

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"You saved the family man, and you gave me hope."

in their own words

Real men, real marriages

365 days · a rebirth
"Today marks my 365th day of what I call my rebirth. I'm feeling so many things it's hard to put into words. This time last year, my wife and I were in a very dark place because of my porn addiction. I truly believed everything good in my life was about to walk out the door, my wife carrying our child with her. I was terrified and deeply ashamed of who I had become. I thank God I found my way into this program when I did."
Past client
My marriage survived
"Never in a million years did I think my marriage would survive. It was done and over, nails in the coffin. Only God knows what the future holds, but once I quit trying to save my marriage and focused on saving myself, things changed. Hope that makes sense."
Past client
112 days · free at last
"I was desperately searching for help to overcome a lifelong addiction to porn. After two and a half years of counseling and therapy, I found myself struggling again. Renewed Hope Coaching and Bryan's program works. Through a better relationship with God and being held accountable, it made all the difference. At 112 days in, I can see recovery. I'm living the freedom I've been looking for."
Past client
Almost 6 months free
"I had joined a different program before this, but it felt like I was just another number to them. So I decided to work with Bryan and his team of specialists, and it's been a completely different experience. This program is personalized to the individual and incredibly effective. I'm almost six months clear from falling back into unwanted patterns and feel like I'm finally free. If you're considering this, take the leap. You won't regret it."
Past client
A therapist · almost 5 months free
"I'm actually a therapist who has been struggling with pornography for a long time. I love that this program was built by a former therapist who specializes in this area. I know how important that is. Today I'm almost five months clear and never looking back. My marriage is stronger and I feel so much better. This program works."
Past client
100 days · from a crossroad to a cruise
"Because of this program and my own dedication, my wife and I have grown back together, and we're celebrating by taking a one week cruise next week. A hundred days ago this was the farthest thing from our minds. We were quickly approaching a divorce crossroad. Now the two of us are taking this trip. Crazy, right?"
Past client

More than 95% ​of the men who enter the program are still in their
marriage six months later.

where men end up

Counsellors and therapists who send men to Bryan

"Bryan is building a reputation for his great work in this field."
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"I often recommend people go and see Bryan. He has my complete confidence."
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"If you're struggling with pornography, I highly recommend you connect with Bryan."
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"He has a great reputation in the therapy world for this. He's the guy when it comes to pornography."
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Who created this

Bryan Petkau

Twenty years of my own struggle with porn. I got free with help. Not on my own, and not by trying harder.  Eventually felt called to help other men.

I knew what worked for me, but that didn't mean I knew how to help others.  Spent the next nine years in university earning a Master's in Psychology, chasing one question the whole time. How does this help men break free?

Five years running my therapy private practice working with hundreds of men, sharpening one system until it held.

The standard therapy model was never built for this fight. So I built something that was.

Over 1,000 men have gone through it with my team.

Before you click

The questions men don't want to ask out loud

Who is this program for?+
This was built for the married Christian man whose pornography use is hurting his marriage. His wife has found out, and it might not be the first time. He promised he'd stop, and he meant it. Then he slipped back into the same pattern anyway. Now there's a lot on the line. His marriage, his family, his integrity, and the life he worked so hard to build. That's the man we serve.
I've tried before and failed. Why would this be different?+
Our process is built around what we call the Three Pillars of Recovery. We work on three sides at once: the biological effects of years of porn use, the psychological patterns that keep drawing you back, and the spiritual battle underneath it all. Leave one pillar out and it's like a table with two legs. No matter how strong those two are, it still tips over. This isn't a one dimensional problem, so it can't be solved one dimension at a time. The men who get free for good work on all three together.
Is this the same as counseling?+
No. I built this program after five years running my private counseling practice, helping hundreds of men in this fight, and getting frustrated. The therapy model isn't the best fit for most men here. Fifty minutes of support a week is like spoon feeding recovery, slowly. This was built so the support is there when you need it, instead of waiting until the next session.
I'm a business owner, executive, or public figure. How confidential is this program?+
Many of the men we work with carry real personal, professional, and leadership responsibility. Privacy and discretion matter a great deal to us, and we take confidentiality seriously. For men with high public visibility, there's also a private intensive option built for those circumstances. Over the years we've worked with professional athletes, executives, business owners, and other men in visible positions. We can talk through the best fit for your situation on a private discovery call.
What happens on the initial private discovery call?+
The purpose is simple. You decide whether the program is right for you, and we decide whether we're the right fit for you. We work closely with each man we accept, so we keep capacity limited and take on only a small number of new men each week. On the call we'll talk through your history, where things stand in your marriage, what you've already tried, and the goals you're after. If it's a strong fit, we'll walk you through the next steps and answer any questions.
How fast can I get started?+
Most men who reach out have just been through discovery and need to move quickly. If we both decide the program is the right fit, you can begin right away.
Things feel heavy and confusing right now. Is there hope for my marriage?+
Brother, I know how overwhelming this feels. Most men who come to us are in some of the hardest days of their lives, carrying fear, shame, and deep worry about the future of the marriage. Over the years my team and I have walked this road with more than 1,000 men. I can't promise your wife will choose to move forward. That decision belongs to her. What I can tell you is there's hope. When a man takes responsibility, commits fully, and does the work to rebuild trust, remarkable things can happen. More than 95% of the men who enter our program are still in their marriage six months later. You aren't the first man to walk this road, and you don't have to walk it alone.

Last thing

One of the most important leadership decisions a man can make is taking responsibility for the areas of his life that are damaging the people he loves most. If you are ready to draw a line in the sand, we would love to meet you.

Renewed Hope Coaching. Chilliwack, BC.

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​Results shared on this page come from real participants and aren't a promise of what you'll experience. This training is education and coaching. It isn't therapy, medical treatment, or crisis care. If you're in crisis or thinking about harming yourself, contact a local emergency line or a licensed professional right away.